Sarah Jessica Parker is addressing the criticism leveled against her iconic "Sex and the City" character, Carrie Bradshaw, defending her against accusations of selfishness and poor decision-making. In a recent appearance on the "Call Her Daddy" podcast, the actress, who has portrayed Carrie for nearly three decades, acknowledged the character's flaws but also highlighted her positive traits.

Parker, now 60, expressed pride in playing the bold character. She recalled being captivated by Carrie's candor and curiosity about sex and sexual politics, something Parker said she doesn't often discuss, even with friends. She admired Carrie's scrappiness and survival instincts, even when she fell short of being the best friend or girlfriend.

Acknowledging the criticisms of Carrie as "selfish" and a "poor decision-maker," Parker admitted that these points have been true at times. However, she emphasized Carrie's loyalty, decency, reliability, generosity, and commitment to her friends, both privately and publicly. Parker underscored that Carrie is a "good person" and an "extraordinarily devoted friend, generous of spirit and time, in all she has to offer."

Parker also addressed the double standard often applied to female characters compared to their male counterparts. She pointed out that male leads are often forgiven for far worse behavior, such as murder or financial irresponsibility, while women are harshly judged for their mistakes. Parker noted that people are quick to "forgive our male leads" while harping on the mistakes of women. She found it curious that Carrie is often labeled "selfish," while Parker can list numerous ways in which she wasn't, yet critics remain fixated on the negative aspects.

Parker is understanding of audience frustration with Carrie's tumultuous relationship with Mr. Big. She admitted that she would also feel frustrated if she were watching her friend repeat mistakes in dealing with Big. As Parker has aged, she has grown more understanding and empathetic toward her character, wanting to embrace all aspects of her.

Despite the criticisms, Parker wouldn't want fans not to have feelings about her character. She believes that those strong feelings, both positive and negative, are "pretty fantastic" and indicate a captive connection to something.

The criticisms of Carrie Bradshaw are not new. Some viewers find Carrie to be self-absorbed, often recentering conversations on herself and prioritizing her needs above those of her friends. Carrie has also been called out for being a "pick-me," someone who seeks male approval and validation. Others say that Carrie embodies the image of careless spendthrifts lacking worldly knowledge as she is politically, fiscally, and technologically ignorant. Despite these issues, others have noted that the character flaws are realistic.

Ultimately, Sarah Jessica Parker's defense of Carrie Bradshaw underscores the complexities of the character and the double standards women often face in the media. While acknowledging Carrie's flaws, Parker emphasizes her positive qualities and the enduring connection she has with audiences, sparking both admiration and frustration for nearly three decades.