While sibling relationships in Bollywood often appear picture-perfect, the bond between Shahid Kapoor and Ishaan Khatter presents a more nuanced reality. Ishaan has often spoken about his admiration for his older brother, but also emphasizes the importance of maintaining his own identity. This includes navigating Shahid's feedback on his work, which isn't always sugar-coated.

Ishaan has described Shahid as a "father figure" in his life, owing to the 15-year age gap between them. He acknowledges that this age difference has shaped their relationship, making it less of a typical sibling dynamic with constant banter and more of a mentorship. Despite this, a strong friendship has developed as Ishaan has matured.

While Ishaan values Shahid's perspective, he also appreciates the space Shahid gives him to carve his own path. "Neither of us interferes too much in the other's path," Ishaan stated in an interview in April 2025, highlighting their mutual respect for each other's individual journeys. This suggests that while Shahid offers guidance, he doesn't impose his opinions or try to control Ishaan's career choices.

However, that's not to say Shahid shies away from offering advice or critique. Ishaan has revealed that Shahid was taken aback by the accent he adopted for his role in the American miniseries, "The Perfect Couple". This indicates that Shahid pays close attention to Ishaan's performances and isn't afraid to voice his opinions, even if they're unexpected. Ishaan, in turn, values this honest critique, recognizing Shahid's experience and understanding of the craft.

In the past, Ishaan has shared specific advice he received from Shahid, such as focusing on finding an honest moment and staying true to the performance between "action and cut". For his role in "Dhadak," Shahid advised Ishaan to research the language and rehearse well. This demonstrates Shahid's willingness to share his expertise and mentor his younger brother.

Despite respecting his brother's insights, Ishaan doesn't always take Shahid's advice. Shahid humorously mentioned in an interview that he constantly gives Ishaan advice, but Ishaan often dismisses it, saying Shahid is "very outdated" and that "life has changed a lot". This playful banter reveals a comfortable dynamic where Ishaan feels confident enough to disagree with his older brother and trust his own instincts.

Ultimately, the relationship between Shahid and Ishaan appears to be one of mutual respect and support, seasoned with honest feedback and a healthy dose of sibling teasing. While Shahid may act as a critic at times, Ishaan seems to appreciate the candor and values his brother's perspective, even if he doesn't always follow it. Their bond reflects a modern sibling dynamic where individuality and personal growth are celebrated alongside familial connection.