Kajol, the celebrated Bollywood actress, recently shared some heartwarming memories about her pregnancies with her children, Nysa and Yug, offering a glimpse into her personal life and parenting journey with her husband, Ajay Devgn.
In a candid conversation, Kajol revealed a surprising detail about Ajay's involvement during the early stages of parenthood: he changed their nappies, not just once, but twice. This revelation challenges conventional perceptions and highlights Ajay's active participation in childcare responsibilities.
Kajol and Ajay Devgn married in 1999 and have two children, Nysa, born in 2003, and Yug, born in 2010. Kajol often shares family moments on social media, providing glimpses into their close-knit family life.
Speaking about her parenting style, Kajol has described herself as the "bad cop," while Ajay is usually the "good cop". However, she noted that Ajay has realized the importance of being strict sometimes. She emphasizes instilling good habits in her children, such as regular hand-washing and healthy eating, while also allowing for flexibility and fun. Kajol also believes in open communication with her children and emphasizes the importance of listening to them, especially as they navigate their teenage years.
Kajol has emphasized that her biggest lesson as a parent has been teaching her children to think for themselves. She said she is very happy to have raised two individuals with their own personalities. She and Ajay share parenting responsibilities, balancing strictness on different issues. While the children are more intimidated by Ajay, they have a strong bond with both parents.
In an interview, when asked if her children are more attached to her or Ajay, Kajol responded that they are both her children and Ajay's children and that she is proud that they are their own people.
Kajol has also spoken about how motherhood has changed her. She mentioned that when Nysa was born, she felt like it was one exam she couldn't fail and that her real-life performance as a mother has been more demanding than any film role.
As her children have grown older, Kajol has embraced a more open and friendly dynamic with them. She believes that being friends with her kids requires conscious effort and having uncomfortable conversations. She hopes her children can talk to her about their lives, including relationships, without judgment.
While Kajol is known to be stricter, she has also learned the art of patience from her children and considers them to be her biggest teachers. She says that she has been learning from her children since she got pregnant and has always let her kids be who they wanted to be individually, guiding them on what is correct and wrong.
Ajay Devgn also shares his perspective on parenting, emphasizing the importance of being protective yet also being friends with his children. He believes in instilling good values and allowing them to learn from their mistakes.
Both Kajol and Ajay Devgn prioritize keeping their children grounded despite their celebrity status. They explain what is right and wrong and allow them to imbibe things. Kajol has also mentioned that she has tried her best to keep them as normal as possible.