In a bold move challenging societal norms, popular Bhojpuri singer Devi, celebrated as the "Mallika of Sur," has become a single mother, giving birth to a healthy baby boy on September 9th at AIIMS Rishikesh. Devi conceived through IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) with the help of a German sperm bank. She shared the news and a picture of her newborn son on social media, eliciting a wave of congratulatory messages and sparking conversations about women's autonomy and reproductive rights in India.
Devi's father, Pramod Kumar, confirmed that this wasn't her first attempt at motherhood through IVF; she had tried seven years prior but was unsuccessful. This time, with the support of her family and modern reproductive technology, her dream has come true. Devi herself described her decision as a step towards reclaiming personal autonomy, asserting that motherhood should not be limited by marriage. She stated that if a woman is mentally and physically prepared, she should have the right to embrace motherhood on her own terms.
Her decision has been hailed as "historic" and "inspirational" by many fans, particularly within Bhojpuri society, where traditional values often dictate women's choices. Devi's career has been marked by challenging conventions. She is known for reviving traditional Bhojpuri folk songs and distancing herself from commercial music that contains obscenity. Her choice to become a single mother via assisted reproduction aligns with her spirit of challenging boundaries and advocating for women's independence.
Devi's journey to motherhood wasn't easy, as she had to overcome medical and emotional obstacles. In a society where a woman's worth is often tied to marriage and motherhood within traditional structures, Devi's choice is particularly significant. Marriage is often seen as the only acceptable path to motherhood, and women who choose otherwise can face judgment and suspicion. Devi's decision gives a voice to many women who desire motherhood but fear societal judgment. Her son's birth is a statement of freedom, choice, and women creating their own paths.
The use of IVF and assisted reproductive technologies is becoming more accessible, giving women more options to pursue motherhood regardless of marital status or biological constraints. Devi's courage is opening doors for other women who dream of having children but don't fit the "traditional" mold. Her actions are sparking important conversations about reproductive rights and challenging long-held social stigmas.
Devi, a native of Chhapra district in Bihar, has recorded over 50 albums and is known for her opposition to vulgarity in music. She has lent her voice to Bhojpuri, Hindi, Maithili, and Magahi songs. Her popular songs include "Piya Gayile Kalkatwa Ae Sajni" and "Kuen Ka Thanda Pani".
